|The Braiding Impression|
Notice the pink sparkle headband.
A simple thing–braiding hair–but oh the joy in the morning when those braids leave impressions all throughout her hair! That zig-zag complexity dries that way and temporarily changes the structure of the hair.
But as soon as she soaks in the bathtub before bedtime, the pattern fades and straightens. She can’t believe how all that work (and an entire night’s worth of sleeping on braids) dissolves with water. It doesn’t last. It can’t. Her root system, determined by her genetic code, trumps my skillful hand.
Sometimes the patterns I set are fragile and tenuous, delicate and flimsy. What seems so fixed and certain dissolves when exposed to environments that test resolve. But I’m still tempted to believe that all will be well if I just find the right structure, the right pattern, the right technique.
I can’t fundamentally change my life by new patterns or designs. I suppose my daughter’s braids made me consider the limits of external applications to change internal dilemmas. I need to get to the root, allow for God’s transforming work, and experience the kind of fundamental change that goes beyond clever techniques for happiness. That kind of change won’t dissolve in water.
Living with flair means I don’t limit happiness to external work. I want the kind of mood change that’s deeply rooted, deeply true.