Today I talk with a woman about the best coaching question. Try this:
What do you want to do in your life that you feel that you cannot do? How can I help you move forward or make progress in this area?
Helping people understand what is against them, where they feel they lack power or agency, or what roadblocks stand in the way of what they wish to do helps them and you as a coach. How can you help? How can you gather the local community to help? How can you bring others with expertise into the situation?
What do you want to do that you feel you cannot do?